Many guys read my site and get all bent out of shape when they see that they may have to put up a deposit for a date. Do you wonder how I came up with this. Let me give you an example. Last year, I was talking with a nice man on one of the swinger sites and after about a week of chat, we decided to meet. I agreed to meet him half way and we chose an Applebees to meet at. I am a stickler for communication and being prompt. So during the day of the date, we exchanged confirmation texts. We were to meet at 8 PM, so I started getting ready at 5 and left the house at 7 to drive an hour to the Applebees. Again texting at 7 to let him know I was on my way. I get to the restaurant at 7:50 and let him know I was there. He text back he was about 20 mins away. 20 mins came, nothing, 30 I texted him asking where he was. He text back telling he was pulling into the parking lot. Another 10 minutes past, I text him again, silence. no further response. This asshole actually went thru all the motions to keep me going, traveling and even waiting for him. Never heard from him again and hope I never do. Anyway, after two margaritas, and conversation with this nice couple, we hit it off and I am now friends with them.
SO, now you see why I ask for gift for a date and a deposit. Some guys give all guys a bad name.